Can't decide... Try them all | Honest thoughts about society, not fitting in, and being unique
Soo I've changed how my website looks a million times in the past few months. Why? I can't decide. I want to talk about my photography, about my travels, what recipes I tried recently and social issues. No matter what I chose, or what new Squarespace theme launched, I felt like nothing really suited me.
Everyone tells you, focus on something you love, focus on a niche, focus on one part of "...".
So what do you do when you can't choose something to focus on?
You try them all. You experience. You continue to be unique.
See, that's the problem nowadays. Society tells us what to do, and majority of the time people want to fit in and follow the crowd. When you can't follow just one thing, or be like what they tell you to be, you're left feeling isolated, lost, and wondering. At least that's how I feel.
I never really followed a path, or a social movement. I was always a bit against the current, and it took me places. It made me adventurous and I feel that I've matured quicker (not necessarily a good thing).
However, it also made me feel anxious, fear society and literally confuse myself.
In the end, it doesn't matter if you fit in or not. We all end up in the same place, and it won't matter anymore what society thinks. Be you until the end. Be adventurous, be curious, make your own beliefs, and most importantly trust yourself.
Now I can't promise I will keep this website look. But if you like it, please let me know in the comments.